Last week at our team fundraiser, some one asked me why I am doing the Relay for Life. Jokingly I said, “For the chicks”. After a few laughs, I thought, “Really, why am I doing this?” Honestly, there are several reasons why I have participated in the Relay for the past three year, why I have done it in the past and why it is such an important event.
In the past
Throughout high school, I participated in the American Cancer Society’s Relay for Life as a member of the North Schuylkill and then the Pottsville Hospital team. In the beginning, I was there to hang out with my friends, stay out late and meet new people, but after my first lap, I realized that this was more than a late night of fun. The event was established to remember those who passed away from cancer and honor those who are fighting the disease and those who have conquered it. At that time, I remembered Mrs. Lord, one of my supervisors at the Hospital and Katie Houtz, another woman I worked with, that were fighting the disease. Mrs. Lord, fought and won, only to recently lose her husband to the same thing that she fought for years. Katie fought it for many years but ended up passing away a few years after she couldn’t take the treatment any further.
Why I Walk
As recently as last week, if you were to ask me why I am walking and collecting donations, I would have said “For OUR friend Joe”. Joe Surges was a coworker of mine at JPL. Joe could best be described as Santa Clause. He was a tall, heavy set man with a white beard. Jovial and always making people laugh. Mr. Surges, as I called him (because, “You can’t have too many Joe’s in the same company”) was always laughing, trying to push people’s buttons. There were times that I would find myself in his office, which was decorated with Beatles and Grocho Marx memorbilia, sitting and talking with him for hours about everything from wrestling to music to world events to girls. Even sometimes we’d discuss work.
He was an amazing communicator, I never saw anyone command a crowd like Joe. He got people excited about their job and their ideas. He pushed the envelope never taking no for an answer and always thinking outside the box.
A True Genius
My most memorable moment with Joe was one day he stopped by my desk and noticed that I was completely stressed out. I discussed the issue with Joe and although didn’t have an answer he did leave me with this important message. “If you put 12 geniuses in a room, they will come up with a brilliant idea, but if you put a 13th in the same room, the idea will be even greater.” Joe finished… “I want to be your genius.” He then told me to stop by his office anytime to bounce ideas off him. Joe was a true genius and an amazing man.
I only knew Joe for about two years before he passed away, but in that time, he made an everlasting impression on not only me, but everyone that he met along the way. Joe is missed and he is the reason, we at JPL started our team JPL United.
Team JPL United
Three years ago, employees, friends and family members of JPL Productions formed our Relay for Life team to remember Joe and our loved ones touched by cancer. Appropriately named, JPL United. As I said, Joe touched everyone’s life, so our team was quickly formed. Throughout the past three years, we have completed fundraisers for the event and the ACS gathering new members along the way. This year, we had a comedy night at Doc Holiday’s and we made nearly $2500 at one time. Getting closer to our goal to surpass $4000 as a team! You can help by donating online.
For the Chicks
As I mentioned before, until recently if you asked me why am I doing this, I would have said for Joe, but everything changed this afternoon. In a discussion with my parents, I asked them for a small donation for our team. With no hesitation, like always, my parents gave me a few dollars. This time my mom mentioned that she had already purchased three luminaries. Wait…what? Three luminaries, for who?
I guess I have been ignorant all this time. I knew my grandmother passed away from a liver disease, but not until today did I understand that this was a form of cancer. The same thing with my great grandmother, who died from a colon disease. Again, a form of cancer. Finally, my aunt who was diagnosed a few months ago, underwent treatment and because the doctors caught it so early there were no complications. How could I have been so naive? How could I forget three woman that were so instrumental on my life? I guess it was appropriate that on the day I speak in church that I remember three woman that really helped me construct my views on faith. So, this year, I am walking for the chicks… For my grandmother, great grandmother and my aunt. Yes, for the chicks.
Performing At The Event
I was asked to perform at this year’s Relay in Hershey. It will be an honor to entertain for such a great cause. I have an interesting time slot, Friday at midnight into Saturday morning. I’m excited to play and to share my music for the ACS.
The Relay
Relay For Life is a fun-filled overnight event designed to celebrate survivorship and raise money for research and programs of your American Cancer Society. During the event, teams of people gather at schools, fairgrounds, or parks and take turns walking or running laps. Each team tries to keep at least one team member on the track at all times. For more Information or donate online.
